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1/1/2026 0 Comments

Part-Time Jobs for Therapists: 10 Things You Should Know Before You Apply (2026 Edition)

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Looking for part-time therapy work can feel overwhelming. Trust me, I get it. As someone who's navigated both sides of the hiring equation in mental health, I've seen how the landscape has shifted dramatically: especially post-pandemic. The good news? Part-time opportunities for therapists are more abundant than ever in 2026. The challenging news? There are some crucial things you need to know before you apply that could save you from frustration, financial stress, or career missteps.
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Let me walk you through the ten most important considerations I wish every therapist knew before pursuing part-time work.

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12/29/2025 0 Comments

The Letdown After the Big Plan: What Happens When the Excitement is Over

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The post-achievement crash is a tough topic to talk about because it catches us so off-guard. You've just accomplished something meaningful, maybe you graduated, got married, finished a big project, or survived a challenging life transition, and instead of feeling triumphant, you feel... empty. Deflated. Like the air has been let out of your balloon.

As a therapist, I see this pattern constantly in my office. Clients come in confused and sometimes ashamed, wondering what's wrong with them that they can't just enjoy their success. "I should be happy," they tell me. "I worked so hard for this, so why do I feel so low?"
Let me start by saying this: there is nothing wrong with you. What you're experiencing is not only normal but actually shows your nervous system is working exactly as it should.

Your Brain on Achievement: The Neuroscience of Letdown

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12/17/2025 0 Comments

Part-Time AMFT Jobs: Your Complete Guide to Finding Flexible Therapy Work in 2026

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​Finding meaningful part-time work as an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist can feel overwhelming. I get it: you're trying to balance your need for flexibility with your desire to do impactful work, all while navigating licensing requirements and building your clinical hours. The job market has changed dramatically, especially post-pandemic, and figuring out where you fit can be tough.

As someone who's worked in this field for years and employs associate therapists, I've watched countless AMFTs struggle to find positions that honor both their professional goals and their personal needs. The good news? The landscape for part-time therapy work has never been more promising. Let me walk you through what I've learned about finding flexible, meaningful positions in 2026.

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8/4/2025 0 Comments

Does Journaling Actually Help With Anxiety?

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Anxiety is tough. Really tough. If you're reading this, chances are you've felt that familiar tightness in your chest, the racing thoughts that won't quit, or that constant feeling like you're waiting for the other shoe to drop. You might have heard people suggest journaling as a way to help with anxiety, but you're probably wondering: does it actually work, or is it just another feel-good suggestion that doesn't really make a difference?

Here's the thing – journaling does help with anxiety, and there's solid science behind why it works. As a therapist, I've seen it make a real difference for my clients, and the research backs up what we see in therapy rooms every day.

What's Actually Happening in Your Brain When You Journal

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7/14/2025 0 Comments

How to Get Going When You Think 'I Don't Know What I Want, But I Know It's Not This'

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That restless feeling in your chest? The one that shows up Sunday evenings or during your commute? The quiet voice that whispers "this isn't it" while you're sitting in another meeting or going through the motions of your daily routine? You're not alone in feeling this way, and more importantly, you're not stuck forever.

Feeling dissatisfied with your current path while remaining uncertain about what comes next is one of the most common struggles I see in my practice. The good news is that this awareness: knowing something isn't right for you: is actually the starting point for meaningful change. You don't need perfect clarity to begin moving forward.

Start Where You Are: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Want

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4/7/2025 0 Comments

Redefining Success: What Does It Really Mean to You?

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Let's be honest, success in America has been pretty narrowly defined for a long time. Big house, fancy car, impressive job title, fat bank account. If you've got those boxes checked, you're "successful," right? But here's the thing: I've worked with plenty of people who had all those markers of traditional success and still felt completely empty inside.

Something's shifting in our culture, and it's about time.

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2/13/2025 0 Comments

Complex Trauma and EMDR: Turning Negative Self-Beliefs Into Positivity

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Complex trauma is one of those heavy topics that we need to talk about more openly. Unlike a single traumatic event, complex trauma happens when someone experiences repeated or ongoing trauma, often starting in childhood. Think emotional abuse, neglect, domestic violence, or growing up in chaos. These experiences don't just leave emotional scars; they rewire our brains to believe some pretty harsh things about ourselves.

If you've lived through complex trauma, you probably know those internal voices well: "I'm not good enough," "I'm broken," "I can't trust anyone," or "It's all my fault." These aren't just passing thoughts, they become core beliefs that shape how you see yourself and move through the world.

But here's the hopeful part: those beliefs can change. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy has shown incredible results in helping people rewrite these negative scripts and develop genuinely positive self-beliefs.

What Makes Complex Trauma Different

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2/2/2025 0 Comments

How Bilateral Stimulation Reprocesses Traumatic Memories: The Neuroscience Behind EMDR

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Let's be honest: trauma is a tough topic to talk about. But understanding how our brains process traumatic memories can actually be incredibly empowering. And when it comes to healing from trauma, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) has become one of the most fascinating and effective treatments we have.

As a therapist, I've watched EMDR work what seems like magic in the therapy room. But there's nothing magical about it: it's pure neuroscience. The secret lies in something called bilateral stimulation, and what it does to our brains is pretty remarkable.

What Actually Happens During Bilateral Stimulation?

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6/19/2023 0 Comments

Values: Our Life Compass

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By Joe Acciaioli, LCSW
In his book Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life, Steven Hayes compares our values to a life “compass.” Values go beyond goals, because they are more deeply held, and we are never “done” with them. If one of my values is to be loving, that is different than the goal of finding a partner and possibly getting married. Presumably, once I find that partner, or even if I break up with that partner, I will continue to have the value of being loving. 
Especially during these challenging times, I find myself talking to my clients about their values, and the importance of living a values-based life. How do we not lose hope in a time of crisis, a time when we see so much suffering in the world? I believe the answer has a lot to do with living our values day-by-day. 

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VISION: Creating a new kind of therapy experience in the Chico and Redding areas in which therapists have smaller caseloads, giving them the flexibility to spend more time with clients as needed - longer sessions, phone calls, client-centered advocacy.  Creating a space in our community where clients can go between sessions to sit, linger, and re-center themselves when they're having difficult days.  A place to belong while they heal their hearts and relationships.  A therapy office that embodies the unconditional love of Christ, no matter what a person's gender identity, romantic disposition, or previous life hardships, experiences, or actions might have been.  To be a safe place.

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